I was updating my resume a week ago when I found myself struggling to find keywords to describe myself. After much thought and a substantial amount of frustration in not knowing what I was necessarily “good” at, I called my mom and asked her for some help.
She told me that one of the things her recruiter suggested that she do, was to take the Enneagram Personality Test.
What Is An Enneagram Personality Test?
The Enneagram Personality Test is a tool that tests the human psyche and categorizes it into nine interconnected personality tests, and it also categorizes common motivations, fixations, core fears, virtues and vices with each personality type.
If you want to take the Enneagram Personality Test, this is the one that I took: CRYSTAL KNOWS
After spending about 15 minutes on the test and answering approximately 50 questions or so, I was given the results immediately.
As is turns out, my personality type is 2w3 (primarily type two, but share some common similarities with those who are type 3), or also known as The Host.
The results are broken down into 5 subcategories, each of which provides beneficial and insightful information given the type of personality that you test in to. These subcategories include Personality Traits, Strengths and Blindspots, How The Personalities Seem To Work, Motivators and Stressors, and Best Jobs.
As somebody who was looking for information to describe themselves and which jobs to start applying to, this test helped to describe my personality type better than I could describe myself.
Let me show you what I mean by sharing my results.
Personality Traits of 2w3
Enneagram type two wing threes fear being unwanted or worthless. They usually avoid this by building personal connections with others and working hard to meet the needs of the community.
The most basic desire is to be loved and accepted. They may express this by being extremely attentive and attached to other people.
Hosts tend to suppress their own negative emotions, which, when done frequently, can lead to high levels of stress or unexpected outbursts.
Overall, I would say that this is a pretty accurate way to describe me. Now, thankfully I don’t lash out… anymore, but I do carry stress when I feel unwanted. And yes, one way to avoid my negative emotions is to feel as if I am providing value to more lives than just my own.
Strengths and Blindspots
Strengths of the Enneagram 2w3 Personality
- Optimistic world-view and upbeat attitude
- Building deep, personal connection
- Being adaptable in stressful situations
- Communicating clearly and effectively
- Passion for serving others
Blind Spots of the Enneagram 2w3 Personality
- A tendency to be overly competitive or obsessive
- Not acknowledging their own needs
- Taking criticism personally
- Criticizing themselves and others when under pressure
I would say that the strengths portion is accurate, and the blindspot portion is definitely accurate. I am incredibly obsessive, I do take criticism personally, and I am my own worst critic when I am under pressure.
How Enneagram 2w3 Personalities Like To Work
Communicating with a 2w3
Listen attentively and engage them in lively conversation; be clear and expressive.
Meeting with a 2w3
Encourage them to help solve issues; direct them toward tasks and give them specific ways to help.
Emailing a 2w3
Include casual conversation; connect with them as you share the purpose of the email.
Giving feedback to a 2w3
Recognize their contributions and sensitively share any concerns.
Resolving conflict with a 2w3
Be clear and expressive, allowing them to be open with their feelings and perspective, as well.
As a 2w3, this is incredibly accurate. I hate when others communicate vaguely with me. If I am doing something, I like knowing details, I like knowing exactly how it’s supposed to be done, and if the conversation is not lively, everything that is directed my way will go right over my head as I don’t pay attention to boring conversations. This isn’t anything against others. It’s just that I subconsciously start to doze off and think about other things.
Motivators and Stressors
When people experience pain, stress, or dissatisfaction at work, it can usually be attributed to energy-draining activities. Therefore, it’s important to know what kinds of activities energize each personality type and which activities drain them.
2w3 tend to be motivated and energized by…
- Making a measurable difference
- Taking time to care for themselves
- Organizing and leading groups
- Meeting and getting to know new people
2w3 tend to be drained by
- Neglecting their own needs
- Being criticized or rejected
- Failing to accomplish goals
- Feeling unloved in relationships
I couldn’t agree with this more. I love feeling like a leader and knowing that I am helping to provide some sense of value to the lives of others.
At the same time, though, I often forget to take adequate care of myself, hate knowing that I failed a goal, and do not enjoy feeling unneeded. Hey, I’m strong enough to admit this.
Best Jobs For Enneagram 2w3
Type twos with three wings love being able to make a difference in the world. They are outgoing and self-assured, sacrificing their time to focus on others. They do best in environments that encourage collaboration and set big goals for helping the community.
Common jobs for people with 2w3 personality types
- Non-Profit Leader
- Motivational Speaker
- Customer Service Representative
- Public Relations Specialist
- Human Resources Manager
- Religious Leader
- Real Estate Agent
If there are two things that I would love to do as a profession, it would be to make money blogging and to make money in being a motivational speaker. The fact that I am currently a customer service representative, well that’s just icing on the cake.
Overall, I would say that the Enneagram Personality Test is incredibly accurate, and it is also a great indicator of what your strengths are, as well as jobs that would best suit your strengths.
The real reason why I took the Enneagram Personality Test was because I needed help in beefing up my resume. I didn’t know what jobs to start looking at and I didn’t know how to best describe myself. In taking the Enneagram Personality Test, I was given more reliable information than I was able to think of at the time of the test.
If you are needing to find some good keywords for your resume, don’t know what jobs to start looking at, or just want to find what your strengths are, then the Enneagram Personality Test is definitely a helpful tool.
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