How to eliminate hate and focus on your own life
We all want to be liked and acknowledged by everyone we know for all of our unique features and amazing personalities. The difficult part about this is that no matter how hard we try, there will always be that one person that will try to bring us down. When we start to tailor our lives based on other people’s opinions, we forget who we truly are and lose sight of our own individual life. What should we do to ensure that this doesn’t happen? Eliminate hate and focus only on our own well-being.
You are either going to be too small, too big, too fat, too skinny, dumb, ect. Even when you are NOT any of these, there is going to be that person that will criticize you. Do you remember how when you were teased in school and your parents said that the bullies were just jealous of you? Well, oddly enough, they were right. Anybody who has time to promote hate on others probably has greater issues of their own. They use bullying tactics to make themselves feel better about their own lives.
So, forget the hate and move on and live your amazing life. Here are some tips to help you live a more worry free life.
Focus on you
Sometimes it is an ok thing to be selfish. If we were not a little selfish, the world would never move forward. When you focus more on yourself, you won’t even realize what others think about you. Being selfish allows you to be you and it will allow you to shine your true colors.
Remove hate from your life
The best way to not have to deal with hate is to eliminate it from your life. People do not realize that they have a choice when it comes to their actions. Either we can cave and live with hate, or we can counter it with peace and remove hate from our life.
Love those who care and remove the ones who don’t
There are always going to be people that love you for who you are and there will also be those that you won’t be able to please no matter how hard you try. Don’t waste your time trying to please everyone. Focus on the people that love you for who you are and conserve your energy for your own self-improvements.
Don’t think, just be
As a society, we care way too much about what other people think. Odds are, while we are spending time worrying about what others think, they are not giving a damn about us. So while we let them impact our every decision, they are still going to hate no matter what changes we make. That’s just how people are.
Make a difference
Treat others the way that you want to be treated and lead by example. It is going to be a lot harder to remove hate than it is to promote it, but remember that nothing worth having ever comes easy. Be the person that you want the world to look up to. Focus on peace, focus on love, and focus on positivity. Do whatever you can to promote a healthier world for everyone.
It is not going to be easy, but every little action that we make will lead to the world being just that much better. Life is already too short the way that it is. We should focus on what we want for ourselves in our own lives, not what we think others want. With your help in every little way, you will help in making the world a better place.
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